Recover from a Breakup Quickly...Wish i can do this shit

There's no denying it: Getting over a breakup can be one of the most difficult, heart-wrenching things you'll ever have to do. One of the things that keeps men from moving on after a relationship has ended is holding on to false hope. Some men are stuck in limbo with the idea that there might be a chance of getting back together with their exes.

The result of such a belief is a double-edged rejection sword. First comes the initial sting originating from the breakup itself; then comes the heartbreaking hope that she will return; then comes the eventual realization that she doesn't regret leaving you and that she is gone for good.

All this pain could be kept short and sweet and you can recover from a breakup quickly if you learn to accept the decision made by your ex. By waiting around and hoping, any man is trapping himself in an endless circle of torture.

So, to get yourself out of this cycle and recover from a breakup quickly, follow these tips we've compiled to help you on your journey.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself
Over the years, men have earned the reputation of being big babies because they're always feeling sorry for themselves. Being dumped only adds to this.

Every man thinks his breakup is the most traumatic one in history. The truth of the matter is that breakups always follow the same pattern, and life goes on. If you keep thinking about how badly you've been hurt, you will continue to hurt. To recover from a breakup quickly, stop feeling sorry for yourself and be determined and proactive in helping yourself get over her.

Destroy the past
As I mentioned before, many dumped men remain trapped in a limbo state of mind, hoping that their ex will return to them, but they will never admit to this. In front of their buddies, they claim to be over the breakup and swear that their girlfriend no longer means anything to them, but if you ask them to throw away all the love letters and pictures, they'll refuse. Why? In case she does return, they won't have to start a whole new photo collection.

To recover from a breakup quickly, you need to destroy or burn anything that reminds you of her. If you find it difficult, this means that you can't let go and you're still hoping for her to return to you. Believe me, once you meet another woman, all those pictures of your ex will become meaningless.
Initially it will be difficult, but once you've destroyed all the memorabilia of your ex, you'll have no choice but to move on, and you won't have anything around to remind you of her and cause you to feel sorry for yourself.

Rearranging the furniture around the house helps you recover from a breakup quickly also. This will lend a new feel to the rooms -- especially the bedroom -- and can help you forget old memories and build new ones.

Remember your family and friends
A man can sometimes fall victim to his blind love and spend too much time with his woman, leading him to forget his family. In the end, however, once he's been dumped, he soon realizes the importance of his family and friends.

Spending quality time with your blood -- the people who stick with you through tough times -- is a sure way to recover from a breakup quickly. It will serve as a reminder of who you were before your relationship started, and the people who love you most will encourage and help you to get back on your feet, which is exactly the kind of push you need in a situation like this.

Repair your ego
Your ego just took a heavy blow, so the last thing you want is to get back into the dating scene and suffer the consequences of the rejection that comes from dating -- you'll take it too personally.

The solution to repairing your ego is to start off slowly by first making friends and doing fun activities such as sports, dance lessons and training at the gym. Getting your body in shape will eventually give you the confidence to meet new women and rebuild your ego.

Once you feel comfortable and decide to get back into the dating game, it will be a lot easier to meet women since you have planted some seeds and you won't look as desperate.

Get motivated
Some men have bitter feelings toward their ex-girlfriends. Some behave in violent and crazy ways, while others let their performance level take a downward fall, be it in school or at work. However, you shouldn't let the actions of a woman dictate the way the rest of your life will turn out.

The sweetest revenge one could have is to be successful. Being dumped is actually the best motivation to help push you to succeed in life. There is no better feeling than bumping into your ex four years down the road after you've dropped 20 pounds, put on a rock-hard six-pack, and started your own lucrative business -- not to mention a beautiful Swedish wife standing by your side.

You won't have to worry about hiding the fact that you work for a local McDonald's. Instead, when your ex asks you what you've done with your life, you can start off with a big smile on your face, look at her wife-abusing husband and the rest is history.

picking up the pieces

A man cannot prevent his woman from leaving him, but he can definitely control the whole breakup situation. So, instead of making the situation more difficult than it has to be, dry your eyes and start working on your healing. Remember, guys: In the famous words of W.E. Henley, "You are the master of your fate and the captain of your soul."

Introducing my new precious books "The Bro Code" and "The Play Book"

Guys I just want to introduce my new books from my favorite series "HIMYM", it is called "The Bro Code" and "The Play Book" this books is really good for us Bros to based all are actions dealing with our broda and with a hot and not so lame total stranger girls. I think its about time to get serious, from now on am going to get important tips coming from this books and share it with you guys, hey! what are bros are for, right!? and this is going to be legen..wait for it..dary!

Dr. Fakeleonard top 8 ways to de-stress

Dr. Fakeleonard top 8 ways to de-stress

I don’t know anyone who isn’t overscheduled, sleep-deprived and overwhelmed by the fact that there’s too much to do and not enough time to do it in. I look at my watch and it feels like the hours are moving by twos. So, before we hit the holidays (hello, over-eating, over-shopping, overtime with crazy relatives) why not head into the season with a de-stressing plan already in place? We caught up with Dr. Fakeleonard of “Leonard’s Blog” to get his favorite absolutely doable de-stressing techniques— the kind we can incorporate into our lives on a daily basis.


Dr. fakeleonard suggests taking control of stress (before it takes control of you) by making small, manageable decisions that will boost your mood on a daily basis. 

1. Cook something. Cooking can boost your mood— and we’re not even talking about the eating part. Focusing on an activity that takes you out of the hustle and bustle of your day can be a form of active meditation. The festive aromas of the season can also put you in a good mood.

2. Declutter! It makes complete sense that having piles on every surface and general outward disorganization in your home makes you more stressed.

3. Do laundry. Simple as it sounds, doing a mundane task like laundry can take your mind away from your troubles and make you feel like you’re accomplishing something.

4. Be active. Breaking a sweat (or even taking a walk) can make a huge difference in stress levels, and it’s a sure-fire mood booster. If you’re a TV addict, make a deal with yourself that you have to earn every hour you’re going to sit on the couch with a half hour of physical activity.

5. Beware of cortisol. Also known as the stress hormone, our bodies produce cortisol when we’re under stress, which can lead to an increase in abdominal fat, starting a vicious cycle. The more stressed we are, the more we eat.  And the more weight we gain, the more stressed we feel. Try some breathing and meditation techniques to nip your cortisol surges in the bud.

6. Make sleep a priority, even if it means missing a holiday fete or two. Getting enough rest is key to regulating the stress levels in your body, and will enable you to take care of all the extra tasks on your to-do list.

7. Laugh out loud. It’s good for your mood and—believe it or not—an hour of belly laughing is a certifiably good workout.

8. Have a standing date with friends. When life gets hectic we forget to make time for our social circle, which can provide perspective, support, and much-needed laughter (see No. 7). Plan a playdate with your girlfriends the way you would schedule an office meeting or an activity for your kids. It’s just as important! 

I told you! SEX is not the only thing that can help us to de-stress, well after all its optional, do those 8 items and have sex to a total stranger..awesome! this is going to be legen..wait for it..dary!

Goodbye

I've been thinking about this a lot those past few days, i am not sure if this is a good decision or still not sure about this, but maybe it is better to just bring this thing to its end. I decided to stop updating my blog, but i am going to leave this site for you guys just to remember the times when we are together laughing to each other and saying bad things in front of our own face.

I remember one thing that drives me to create a blog and wrote what i really felt about this girl, telling the story that never really happens hahah, no am just kidding, it all happens and all my story was a true story that happens to me and what really happen to those characters. That thing that drives me is this feeling that eventually getting nowhere, that is why i decided to stop this stupidity and start looking for someone else, someone that can make my #*%^ go bigger and bigger and harder, that is why i started to enroll on a gym near the office, it is called Storage Room. It will help me forget the past, and forget that i rejected her and find someone new, well everyone has its expiry date so my advice is, get a move on with your life and stop tapping my back. We are done here..

Always remember if you guys having a problem with a chic, the only solution for that is this, slept with her and never ever calll her again..true story

This is your awesome friend signing off..

A Love Story (segway)

WhatttUp!!! Ok lets do it, let us continue what we've  missed those past few days, what else! of course my love story, a love story that is going to be legen..wait for it..dary! but before that im going to share something that happened yesterday and keep you hanging about the continuation of my love story, but we will tackle that later after this unforgettable moment.

While i was walking down the hall way, i saw an angel and am so sure that this is the angel coming down here on earth with a mission, and that mission is i think and am not sure if this is really her mission "to make me fall in love with her and to stay by my side forever " goose bumps.. anyway my initial reaction is to confirm if this is true, if she is really an angel, and im right she is more than an angel she is the love of my life and you know what, she stares at me and say hi, so i said hello and tell her that she looks great..heheh no i didn't say that im just kidding..what i said is this "how are you" then she replied by saying "im fine and im getting taller this time" i said "really! that's great" so i look into her eyes and it feels like heaven, after that i find myself sitting on my table thinking...why does she still wanted to add some more height, if that happens, i will find it really hard to describe her and to think of something that is better than the word "perfect"...that is really bothering me, because for me she is a perfect woman....and am awesome and you cant do nothing about it..whatttup!!

Loosing My Temper

Guys the topic of my blog today is about loosing my own temper. Last week i have this really stupid behavior that i really cannot control, it affects my mood, my work, and most of all my colleagues which i really treasure for having them in my life. Loosing my own temper really affects my emotion, i mean after what i did i wished i can turn back the time and do those things in a right and ethical ways, that is why until now i find it really hard to do the normal things when I'm here at work, it feels like every time i make actions or what ever, i have to think first if it is right or wrong, if my actions will affect the people in my working environment in a nice way or not, this is really..i don't know.. I know i made a stupid actions and I'm guilty for doing it. Well i think i learned my lesson well. First, i have to learn how to respect people around me, for me to earn the respect i need coming from them. Second, think first before i act, people who always move forward without thinking is what they call clumsy or stupid. The last but not the least, learn how to control my temper..

For those people, I'm really sorry for saying those things and acting so unprofessional and for showing disrespect, i am the one who is really at fault. I still hope to have this really great moments with you guys.

A Love Story (Continuation#4)

Sorry to keep you guys waiting for my update, your awesome friend right here is too busy yesterday so i got no time to update my blog, so without any introduction im going to start my story by pointing something..am awesome and that brings me to point number two..am awesome and you can't do nothing about it..true story

So there, everywhere i go i saw her together with her ex, and every time  i saw those two happy couple i felt like "well maybe im really just a big and awesome looser" hahahah!! funny! not a true story.. but you know what, that never stops me on pursuing things, i mean it is ok for us to be friend right? so i never stop giving her some annoying messages like death threat or something, hahah! nahh im just kidding! my always message to her was "take a good care of yourself, good morning and good night" what a boring message right, usually when i received a message like that  i always put it on trash so i guess she done the same thing with my messages, no doubt about that.. so one day, they have this group outing/party for celebrating a lost hahah! no im just kidding, well if someone ignores my offer that would be definitely a big lost for them hahahah!! by the way have you heard the name "leo" well i heard that guy is awesome.. im planning to be part of that party since some of my friend is going so maybe going to that party is not that really boring, and also i got to see some beautiful and hot women wearing their best bikini, but still i decided not to go and instead go to my favorite salon and get a haircut, oh yeah i remember now why i decided not to go on that party, because my friend who happens to be a good friend of my friend Voltaire "Volt the Jolt" who happens to be a name that is really not popular but i heard that guy is awesome too invited me to go and have some drinks on our favorite bar, that is why i decided not to go.. so there again i got my haircut, go straight home freshen up a bit and go to my favorite bar, then after an hour drinking with my friends, i send a text message to her saying "take care of yourself  while partying, i really want to attend on your party but i need to do something, i have a class tomorrow so i need to get up early" i said that because i heard that her ex is also going to that party..thats it, and after a few minutes she replied saying "can you please stop giving me text message" after reading the message i was shocked..so that moment i felt really sad and confused, dude did i said something wrong or stupid?? well anyway, i told my friends at the bar about this girl and about what happen and also about the text message i received a while ago, well most of my good friend at that bar is a very nice girl so i ask for some advice, they told me not to give her any message anymore because of the situation and dont feel bad because things like that sometimes happen especially on me because they said im an awesome looser..i hate those guys but i love them heheh those are my friends.. so i decided not to give her any message and continue drinking my favorite alcohol drinks SMPP.. i smiled during that party but deep inside my heart is bleeding to death..

Guys this is it for today..need to do something..dont forget am awesome and you can't do nothing about it..true story